wybierz ostatnią wiadomość rozmowy dla każdej rozmowy w mysql

Sprawdź to:

SELECT *
  FROM messages_status mst
       INNER JOIN (SELECT messages.* FROM messages INNER JOIN (
                    SELECT sender_ID,conv_id,MAX(created_at) as maxtime FROM messages
                    GROUP BY sender_ID,conv_id) as t1 ON
                    t1.sender_id = messages.sender_id AND t1.conv_id = messages.conv_id AND 
                    t1.maxtime = messages.created_at) msg 
                    ON mst.msg_id=msg.id
WHERE mst.user_id = 1 AND mst.status NOT IN (0,3)
ORDER BY msg.created_at DESC

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