jak przejść przez tabelę, aby znaleźć zestaw danych?

Możesz to łatwo zrobić, pivoting dane.Można to zrobić na dwa sposoby.

1. Użyj Conditional Aggregate do obracania danych. Po pivoting możesz znaleźć datediff między różnymi etapami. Spróbuj tego.

SELECT orderid,Received,Keyed,Printed,Delivered,
       Datediff(minute, Received, Keyed)    TurnTime1,
       Datediff(minute, Keyed, Printed)     TurnTime2,
       Datediff(minute, Printed, Delivered) TurnTime3
FROM  (SELECT OrderID,
              Max(CASE WHEN ActivityID = 1 THEN ActivityDate END) Received,
              Max(CASE WHEN ActivityID = 2 THEN ActivityDate END) Keyed,
              Max(CASE WHEN ActivityID = 3 THEN ActivityDate END) Printed,
              Max(CASE WHEN ActivityID = 4 THEN ActivityDate END) Delivered
       FROM   Yourtable
       GROUP  BY OrderID)A 

2. użyj Pivot transponować dane

SELECT orderid,
       [1]                        AS Received,
       [2]                        AS Keyed,
       [3]                        AS Printed,
       [4]                        AS Delivered,
       Datediff(minute, [1], [2]) TurnTime1,
       Datediff(minute, [2], [3]) TurnTime2,
       Datediff(minute, [3], [4]) TurnTime3
FROM   Yourtable
       PIVOT (Max(ActivityDate)
             FOR ActivityID IN([1],[2],[3],[4]))piv